Originally posted by InSidiousGG:
I extracted this
from a dating advice newletter. From David DeAngelo
Looks true to me.
I extracted the esstential points out. enjoy. 
I have a lot of guys write me to say, "I know this girl who's
beautiful and smart and attractive. She and I are great friends, we
have everything in common, and we get along perfectly... but she
says that she's just not
attracted to me..."
Have you ever noticed that:
[b]1) The most attractive and interesting women seemto be attracted
to men who don't treat them very
well?
2) That the "nicer" you are to a woman the moreshe often
seems to act like "just a friend" to
you?
Here's the deal: Women aren't usually romantically attracted to
"nice" guys. Women are attracted to men who are funny, confident,
andmysterious. Good looks don't hurt, but if you're not 6'4" tall
and model-handsome, then youhave to learn how to attract women with
your personality.
Onward...
I believe:
1) Women make decisions
very, very quickly aboutwhether a man is going to be "just a
friend" or if he has romantic potential, and once her
decision
is made, it's probably going to stay made.
2) These decisions are made "subconsciously", meaning that women
make all of them quickly and ata "gut level".
3) If you know how, you make her feel attraction feelings rather
than "friend" feelings.
4) The way to do it is to stop acting "nice" and start acting,
well... something else... and I don't mean "not nice".
Before I talk about each, I first have to remind you that
WOMEN DON'T USUALLY MAKE SENSE. Remember
that.
Here's a good metaphor: Remember when you learned to drive? It all
made sense... turn the wheel left and go left, turn it right and go
right...
But do you remember when you learned to back up? Backing up was a
whole new game. Everything that used to work now works in a
different way. At first you feel disoriented. Turn the wheel left
and go right... and you have to learn how to maneuver with the back
wheels staying straight while the front wheels turn... all with
your headturned around.
For most people, this takes some time and practice. But once you
"get it" then you can do it anytime you want.
Well, women are very similar. At first it's very confusing. You
have to try things that don't seem to make sense. But once you get
the hang of it, then you see how it works and can make it work...
just like backing up a car.
Confident, Funny, mysterious
[/b]
Fully agree!!! Men need to be Confident,Funny and mysterious to
easily attracted opposite sex. Women like interesting guy,a guy who
is sometimes unprepdictable and give plenty of surprises to make
them feel special and great! They don't like nice but BORING guy!
It is hard rare for lady to meet a nice and interesting guy.
